July 28, 2006

Families bristle at word of tour extension

By Karen Jowers
Times staff writer

For some families of soldiers in the 172nd Stryker Brigade, the July 27 announcement of the
extension of their tour in Iraq was just too much.

Some of them are joining the ranks of the anti-war group
Military Families Speak Out. “We’ve had a
whole group of people who have joined since the announcement,” said
Nancy Lessin, co-founder of
the group. She was working to get an exact count at press time, and said e-mails are still coming in to
the organization.

“They are having meetings at families’ homes,” she said. “Many family members hold their breath until
their loved one gets home,” and then speak out, she said. “But something like this puts them over the
edge.
“There has never before been a group of military families breaking the code of silence like this,” she
said. “It speaks to the horrific nature of the invasion and now occupation of Iraq.”

Lessin and her husband, Charley Richardson of Boston, founded the organization with another
military family in November, 2002, to speak out against military action in Iraq. Their Marine son served
in Iraq in 2003.

The organization now has grown to more than 3,000 military family members. Most are parents or
spouses or fiancées of troops, she said, but there are also siblings, grandparents, aunts and uncles,
and children.

“I got one e-mail from a young man whose 59-year-old mother was being deployed,” she said.

Since June 22, some members of the group have staged “Operation House Call” near the U.S.
Capitol, making statements to congressmen, staff members, and others as they pass by. The number
varies daily, but more than 50 family members have participated at some point, coming from the
Washington, D.C., area as well as other locations around the country. By the time they finish Aug. 3
when Congress is expected to go into summer recess, the number may reach 100.

A number of service members, including some Marines and a West Point graduate, have thanked
them for their efforts, Lessin said.

Group members have also visited a number of congressmen and senators. “As we go in to offices, we
often take two pairs of boots and put them on the table to show an average of two troops are being
killed for each day that Congress fails to act,” she said.

They will continue to speak out until their goals are met, Lessin said. Those goals “are to end the
occupation and bring the troops home; to take care of them when they get here.

“And never again send our loved ones to a reckless misadventure putting them in harm’s way in a war
based on lies,” she said.

Group members have been maintaining their vigil near the Cannon House office building when
Congress is in session.

The group is worried about the care of troops who return, especially their mental health. “The biggest
single issue among families lucky enough to welcome their troops home is PTSD [post-traumatic
stress disorder],” she said.

But there’s a broader concern, too, Lessin added. “There’s a real sense among families this war is
destroying the military,” she said, noting that “many service members who wanted to make the military
a career” and were devoted to their service, have chosen to leave the military.

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